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Selasa, 17 Mei 2011

FREE CHILD BEHAVIOUR COURSE


I am excited to give you full details of my FREE 1 day Parent’s Guide to Children’s Behaviour course held in Stafford, funded by the Millennium Awards Scheme.
The course is suitable for all parents with children 0-16 years from those who want to learn how to transform their children’s behaviour to those who would simply like to understand more about how they can help their children to grow up happy, confident and successful and reach their full potential.
The course is full of practical, easy, effective, proven, positive strategies that will bring out the best in any child, so please contact me as soon as possible to book your FREE place to avoid disappointment. Please note this is a onetime only free offer.
What is the course all about?
The course is in 4 parts, which is all provided for you in the course manual.  Once you have completed the 1 day course you will be ready to implement the strategies into your home life and you will receive priority email support from myself for 4 weeks so that I am always at hand should you want to contact me with your questions.

Part 1
Find out exactly why children behave the way that they do, this is fascinating and you are likely to be left thinking, why didn't someone ever mention this before?  You will gain insight into how you as a parent affect your child's behaviour so that you can focus on doing things that will give you the results that you want.

Part 2
You will consider how nurturing your child's spirit, helps them to feel more positive about themselves.  It also shows you why this is vital because your children will ultimately become what they feel about themselves.

Part 3
You will get down to the business of handling your child's unwanted behaviour.  You will learn about the different types of behaviour and the very best way to handle them. You will make a detailed plan of action using, positive assertive consequences that are appropriate for your child's age and stage of development and behaviour, so that you can be successful consistent and confident in your approach to your child's misbehaviour.

Part 4
You will look at how you can live as a family happily ever after.  You will look at the big picture of family life, which is essential because your general wellbeing directly affects the way that you behave which in turn affects your child's behaviour.

Free Bonuses;
- 4 weeks priority email support from me.
-The course manual
-Access to my Transform your child's behaviour video series
-Free audios on how to listen and talk to your child
-My special report on Bullying
Where;
The Holiday Inn Express
Off M6- Junction 13
Acton Court
Acton Gate
Stafford
ST189AP
When;
Saturday 21st May
9.30-4.00
Book your place now;
Please contact me to book your place as soon as possible;
Phone Ruth; 07929047110
Looking forward to seeing you there
Ruth

Rabu, 09 Maret 2011

9 Tips to stop children's aggressive behaviour




Children can start to become aggressive at a young age (terrible two’s perhaps) due to a number of factors.  They may be trying to become more independent but they don’t have the skills to do what they want, or they may be frustrated at not being able to communicate or understand their feelings.  They may also be pushing their boundaries and trying their luck to see how far mom and dad will let them go, or they may simply be trying to get attention or to manipulate a situation to get their own way.   Frustrations and anger can then come out in the form of hitting, biting, screaming or kicking or crying. 
So how do you stop aggression?
1.  Find out what sorts of things are making them angry for example, not liking to share their toys

2.   Teach them to handle their frustration, for example teach them how to share

3.    Help them to become more independent, such as showing them how to do things for themselves by breaking down the task into little chunks (like instructions in a recipe book)

4.    Nip problems in the bud, if you can see aggression and frustration building up, jump in and re-direct their attention and move them away from the problem

5.   Talk with your child and help them too know what is expected of them, for example tell them before hand that, when they are with their friends you want them to share their toys

6.   Set boundaries that they know are there, a child who knows how far they can go is more likely to accept the rules and keep within them

7.   Keep them busy and give them attention to keep them stimulated and happy

8.   Ignore tantrums and loud outburst if it is safe as they are less likely to do it, if they get no attention for it

9.   Help your child to understand their feelings, for example when they seem to be looking cross say to them, ‘you seem cross’, then they will start to understand what can be frightening emotions and they will eventually be able to tell you that they feel cross.
I am sure that if you use these tips you will reduce your child’s aggressive behaviour, If you would like more tips on how to improve your child’s behaviour, you can download my book, ‘A Parent’s Guide to Children’s Behaviour’, in minutes here…. http://bit.ly/PGCBBOOK
Best wishes

Ruth