Human beings, small and large, have a paradoxical attitude towards rewards. If you reward your child every time she draws a picture, she will like drawing less than if she gets no reward.
It's as if your child is thinking "If I have to be rewarded for drawing, it must not be very fun."
If you're paid to work, you may work hard because you want the money. But you won't go to work on Saturdays, even if your work is actually very fun.
Because of this quirk of human nature, researchers have often concluded that if you reward your child for eating vegetables, it will make her like them less.
However, a recent study has found that rewards may actually work after all.
Using Small Prizes as Rewards May Work
Researchers divided a group of parents with preschoolers into 3 conditions:
- The first set of parents gave their children a small sticker whenever they ate a tiny bite of a disliked vegetable
- The second set of parents praised their children whenever they ate a tiny bite of a disliked vegetable
- The third set of parents simply offered their children the vegetable
Praising children for eating their vegetables didn't do any good at all.
How to Reward Your Child for Eating Vegetables
If you want to reward your child for taking a bite of her vegetables (or any other food she doesn't like), use a small reward like a toy or sticker. Don't praise her.
Don't give your child junk food, like sweets or chips, as a reward for eating vegetables. The "eat your vegetables and then I'll give you some dessert" tactic only makes your child like desserts more. She will think "If I'm getting dessert as a reward, dessert must really be wonderful."
There Are More Effective Techniques Than Rewards For Getting Your Child to Like Vegetables
Rewards may help your child like vegetables, but there are much more powerful techniques.
Simply serving the vegetable to your child, over and over, is a much more effective technique than rewards. Before your resort to rewards, make sure you are giving your child healthy food like vegetables, fruits, and whole grains for every meal.
Eating the same food as your child is also an extremely powerful technique. Your child will model you. Eat meals with your child and make sure you are eating the same healthy food that you want your child to eat. She will copy you, and learn to like the food you are eating.
For more techniques to help your child like vegetables, see this post and this post.
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